Hate?!

It's a shame that it had to be this way
It's not enough to say I'm sorry
It's not enough to say I'm sorry

Maybe I'm to blame
Or maybe were the same
But either way I can't breathe
Either way I can't breathe

All I had to say is goodbye
Were better off this way
Were better off this way

I'm alive but I'm losing all my drive
Cause everything were been through
And everything about you
Seemed to be a lie
A guiltless twisted lie
It made me learn to hate you
Or hate myself for letting it pass by

"Secondhand Serenade-Goodbye"

Kernerman English Multilingual Dictionary (Beta Version) - Cite This Source - Share This hate [heit] verb
to dislike very muchExample: I hate them for their cruelty to my father; I hate getting up in the morning.
Arabic:يَكْرَه
Chinese (Simplified):恨
Chinese (Traditional):討厭, 恨
Czech:nenávidět
Danish:hade
Dutch:haten
Estonian:vihkama
Finnish:vihata, inhota
French:détester
German:hassen
Greek:μισώ
Hungarian:gyűlöl
Icelandic:hata
Indonesian:membenci
Italian:odiare
Japanese:憎む
Korean:몹시 싫어하다
Latvian:ienīst; neciest
Lithuanian:ne(pa)kęsti
Norwegian:hate, avsky
Polish:nienawidzieć, nie znosić
Portuguese (Brazil):detestar, odiar
Portuguese (Portugal):odiar
Romanian:a urî, a detesta
Russian:ненавидеть
Slovak:nenávidieť
Slovenian:sovražiti
Spanish:odiar, detestar, aborrecer
Swedish:hata, avsky
Turkish:nefret etmek

I hate my job,
I hate this city,
I hate waiting,
I hate yellow,
I hate him,
I hate you...

Kata2 diatas pasti sering deh kita denger..Pasti dunk pernah ngerasain perasaan ini, entah itu karena kesal ama orang atau sesuatu(entah itu teman, fam, ato jangan2 makhluk yg namanya 'cowok'). Apa sih benernya hate ato indonesianya tuh "benci" itu..Bener2 cinta, kata orang tua(masa sihh..), menurut KBBI(Kamus Besar Bahasa Indonesia,1994) benci tuh sama dengan sangat tidak suka.

Kalo pernah ngerasain yg namanya fall in love ma orang trus putus, bisa jadi berakhir dengan rasa yang satu ini, ato dijahatin ma orang, kerjaan yang numpuk, nungguin orang ampe bulukan, ato jangan2 gara2 nonton sinetron trus sampe rasanya pengen marah2 gara2 ngeliat akting aktris/aktor yang nyebelin banget(ini mah udah diluar batas kewajaran, walaupun banyak juga sinetron2 Indonesia yg make cara ini buat ninggiin rating penonton).

Benci=sampah

Sekarang aku pengen ngebahas ini nih, berapa lama sih kamu nggak suka ama seseorang.. sehari, 2 hari, seminggu, sebulan, ato mungkin bahkan taunan.. Dan nggak ada batasan untuk sebuah kata benci..

Tapi kalo dipikir secara nalar dan rasional, bukannya pake emosi doang.."pentingkah benci"??!
Yeah, I know It's sucks when somebody hurt you so bad, cheated on you, dumped you for no reason, made fun of you.. yeah he/she deserves to be hated

Maybe if you heard his/her name, there's a dark cloud above you, If you must said something or give him/her testimonial you would said he's/she's bastard/bitch, If someone gave you his/her photo, you will tear it into tiny pieces..

Dan tanpa disadari, rasa benci ini menumpuk terus dan terus.. Entah itu cuma sebentar ataupun tahunan, seperti penyakit bawaan . Yang bikin kita jelek, ato ngerasa nggak sehat.. Sekarang gw cuma mau nanya 1 hal.. "Aren't you tired spending years hating him/her?"

May be this is the right time to over it.. Ngebuang segala sampah yang menggunung di hati loe, belajar maafin dia dan belajar untuk memaafkan diri kita sendiri. Memang susah sih.. Tapi pikir deh, hidup lu rasanya terlalu berharga untuk terus membenci dia. Hating him/her for years? It's such a waste..

Everyone makes mistakes, even it once in a life time.. Hey, it's normal, we're only human, not an angel.. Mungkin kita bukan melakukan kesalahan padanya, tapi kita pasti pernah kan berbuat kesalahan pada orang laen..

Just try...

Untuk ngebersihin hati kamu dari segala sampah kebencian sama seseorang, mungkin ini nggak akan bikin kamu puas, you can forgive but not forget, yeah soalnya sampe sekarang masih belom ada orang yg bener2 nemuin cara buat turn back time supaya kita nggak perlu ngejalanin semua yang bikin kita sakit hati, even itu hipnotis, itu benernya cuma mengunci memori kita aja.. ATO jangan2 hati loe udah bener2 beku karena kelamaan benci dia??

Just remember, Nobody's perfect..

You can do it, you can continue your live, live must go on..
..coz I do.